Some say it’s a taboo, others say it reeks of desperation. I say if you want to, go for it! “Life is too short to be forming hard geh” 😛
It’s not like you’re asking him to marry you, father your cute babies and live happily ever after! Hehehehe 😛
What are your thoughts on a girl stepping up to a guy to let him know how she feels about him, in summary “asking a guy out” ?
Silly? Bold? Downright unacceptable? “Girl wtheck are you smoking”? “And they lived happily ever after”?
Leave your thoughts in the comment section.
I can’t wait to read your thoughts 🙂
i do not see a big deal in a girl stepping up to a guy
she is not asking him to marry her na
walk up to the guy, ask him on a date (dinner or just drink)
y’all talk, laugh and have a great time…….(just dnt go on a date advertising your thirst)
talk about life, love, ambitions, plans (not sex)…. dat gives him the impression that you are not just a chick looking for a knocking mate.
yall say ur good byes after the date.
let him be the one to reach out to you afterwards; if he does not……he is not into you;…my dear “Gbakamu” and move on
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Lol @ don’t advertise your thirst! Do girls get thirsty? (Topic for another day)
Gba kamu and move on! I like that part 🙂
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To be frank, I believe women are scared of rejection, the power behind the fact a man can approach you and you can still say “NO” gives one an upper hand of power and a sense of “Yeahhhh *Looks In the mirror* I still Garrit *Wink*
but relaying your emotions is highly advised, I mean what’s the worst he could say? “No”? Or I don’t feel the same way you do? Now you know how it feels not to have the upper hand.
We are all equals in the eyes of our maker “GOD”. Therefore put your pride aside and tell him he has a nice perky Bum who knows he might just be the one?
But Hey, Steady on with the marriage proposals, he may just think you want to wear the trousers in the relationship, or you may bruise his male ego. No man like to feel “LESS OF A MAN” by his significant other.
Omoteeeeeeeeeee signing out 😀
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Hey sugarfoot! I love this, rejection is something us girls can’t handle well most times. Perky bum eh? A few dress rehearsals in from of my mirror and I’m good to go.
“Hey boy can I get a minute of your time”…. Hehehehe
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ok, lemme just drop a link, I think inthe is doing a series on this right now.
“pulling a ruth”- http://www.inthemidstofher.com
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Measuring on part 3.
I love the series already and the Christian angle just deals it all for me!
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Imagine auto correct!! Waiting on part 3 it should’ve read 😛
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me three!
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Wow!! All these confident girls commenting and i’m just (. . ) … I can’t ask a guy out… I still don’t know how to even call my own bf without feeling uptight and uncomfortable… I’m not used to doing all that. If he doesn’t sound like he’s skipping with glee, i feel off.. #dontJudgeMe
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Skipping with glee she says! Do you sound like your skipping with glee as well? Cos he might also have expectations on how you should sound 🙂
I guess previous interactions tend to affect how we relate with people, let the feeling types of way just melt away! Relationship is a two sided thing so don’t let him do all the work 🙂 waiting on the picnic update 🙂
*rooting for you*
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‘Hey boy, I think I am in love with you’ is never hard to say…never…not if you guys have a relationship going.
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Hahahahaha I like that 😛 what if you don’t have a relationship going?
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Nay To Asking Guys out!
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I see no problem with telling a guy you like him and you may want to hang out with him. However, you need to leave it to him to take the initiative afterwards if not it could just turn out that he is being nice but doesn’t actually like you.
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Thank you for stopping by.
Yay someone else gets it, just a lil kick and then wait 😛
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